Monday, 26 October 2015

What to Do, When Your Friend Come Out to You as Bisexual


If your friend tell you he(she) is bisexual, he(she) must trust you and regard you as a valuable friend , therefore he has the courage to come out to you . All you have to do is support him(her) . but how to support? Here are some useful tips for you .
When a friend come out to you , remember the person has not changed , he(she) is still the one you know before , you just have more information about him(her) than you did before. He(she) is still the same friend he(she) has always been.
Give your friend a hug , thank him(her) for his trust and reassure him(her) of your continued friendship and support . this could be important and means a lot to him as he may be afraid that he will lose you as a friend.
Don’t assume your friend fancy you , just because he come out to you as bisexual , they may want you to do nothing but just listen to and be positive .
You may be curious about his bisexual orientation , but before you asking any sensitive question think twice , consider his feeling about the way you ask . and don’t ask too much ,because you may violate his privacy . it’s up to him if, when and where to tell you more things .

If you have any bad feeling about bisexual issues, try not to overreact or judge him express your disapproval, that will hurt him so much.

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